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Molly Wilcox's avatar

I just had my second c section. It was an emergency c section after a trial of labor. I’m struggling to make peace with it because the reason was ongoing long late heartrate decels. It was a midwife led birth at the hospital with the best VBAC rate near me. I felt like I did everything “right” and still ended up being ran down the hall when my baby’s heartrate didn’t recover after 4 minutes. I’ve been trying to get the strips for 3 months and still haven’t seen them myself, but I’ve heard the decels were in the 30s/40s. The doctor ended up making a mistake in my surgery that caused an injury to me because it was done so quickly and I ended up on the table for 3 hours. I *think* the c section was necessary but I struggle to know for sure. A lot of “crunchy” moms have told me I should have done this or that to avoid it and that the doctor could have made the wrong call. But at the same time I felt like everyone in the room let it go on for as long as possible until it got truly concerning. I don’t really know if I have a question…I guess just sharing my experience of being on one side of this conversation. It is confusing and frustrating!

ZR's avatar

Loved this whole article apart from the very last thing about your friend! As a pregnant person this all read as very balanced and measured and then WHAM oh actually continuous monitoring stopped my friend’s kid from dying?! Thought I would share as I felt strongly that was not a great ending for pregnant people reading this if part of the idea was to get people to consider IA and midwife led care etc

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